1.) Write a poem, letter, or message to him but don’t send it. Read it a hundred times, cry over it again and again. Cry until you’ve had enough and then place it somewhere;
To the past inhabitant of Catalonia
whose eyes I caught upon him entering the room first day of class
with head a foliage of curly
then later cut into baldness
bare like what is left of me after trying to distance
I was the lover
in defiance of everything that beckoned he was wrong for me
my heart shall now experience slumber
the rest that it deserves
rather with the pair of eyes that caught me since the first day of class
the gentleman that taught me chemistry
as sparks ignited inside of me
its time to turn these sparks off
before it burns the rest of me
2.) Surround yourself with your true friends/best friends. It’s okay, trust me, you can pour your heart out to them.
3.) Vacation works 🙂 It gives you space and time. But do not go to a place you go to together, you’re not ready for that.
4.) Get your hair cut. Maybe a new look would help? Look way way better than you were with him because hey, you’re a free soul! Who knows, maybe its time to meet ‘the one’. And you don’t want him to just walk past you when the time comes. Babe, you’d want him to feel something the moment he glances at you, and that he couldn’t get you off his mind from then on.
5.) Give yourself time. Of course you need time. You may never forget him but feelings can change, it will if you let it.
6.) It’s time to move on.